It is very natural for you to be worried about your child's performance and his future but at the same time it is more important to find out the underlying reasons for this. If his behavior is turning aggressive, not mixing with friends, scholastically he is not faring well, then there has to be certain other issues involved in it. You should meet his teachers and friends to find out what is boggling him and also take help of a Psychologist.

Once he is able to handle these issues it will not be difficult for him to focus in his studies and future goals.

Hope that will help you.

Counselor